Once on Facebook. Once on LinkedIn. One friend’s birthday and another’s work anniversary, respectively, appeared on my screen.
One I knew died way too early. I knew him almost all my life as we grew up across the street from each other. He drove me to school when my parents thought I was waiting for the bus.
The other, I wished a happy work anniversary, and as I found out yesterday from a mutual connection, had died over a year ago of after a brave fight with cancer, so imagine my shock when she advised me of this.
So this most unwelcome surprise doesn’t happen to someone else as it just did to me.
In doing so, you help honor their memory.